Sex -

From my short- time experience and from what I have heard already from other sufferers – this is one of those topics that men most want to know about- but few medics are specific about. All too often, the individual reality remains hidden behind terms and statistics like 30% impotence- but what does that mean exactly to the individual?

“Impotence” can be a very general term - to some it means an inability to sire children – yet to others it means the ability to have an erection and satisfy a partner. What does it really mean on a Saturday night when you are alone with a partner, you’ve had a nice meal, the mood is right- and you wish to indulge in some sexual activity?

In discussing this issue honestly and openly, it is necessary for me to ask you to first take the element of “love” right out of the equation. I’m primarily talking about sex and not love or lovemaking. We will put it in back later, but first in raw terms it is necessary to discuss the most basic drive (and function) in all males- the ability to have an erection and please or satisfy a partner.

Having an erection or being able to have one, is at the base of everything we hold dear as being the men that we are. Little wonder, problems with being able to achieve that, can strike at the very core of our sense of wellbeing and confidence.

Physically, each prostate case is different, and how the individual is affected long term entirely depends what is removed by whichever procedure. Given that there are two main “tubes” on either side of the prostate that supply the penis with the “wherewithal” to function properly, in most surgery’s one or even both tubes may have to be removed depending on the spread. Nowadays Surgeons are very careful to try to save as much as possible- but it’s not always possible. If a man’s cancer is on one side of the prostate, as it usually is, it’s almost a certainty that he will lose one of the two tubes. In such a case, his capability may be affected (although not necessarily) if prior to the procedure he had no difficulties in achieving full, firm erections etc. If on the other hand he was experiencing difficulties before one tube was removed, it is highly likely that his capabilities will be even further reduced.

From what I have been able to find out so far- most men with one tube intact may be able to function satisfactorily with or without assistance from such modern day marvels as Viagra or Cialus. This is a fantastic thing because it is not so long ago that there were fewer medical alternatives available, but now many men and their partners are benefiting from these recent medical advances.

If a man loses both “tubes” in radical surgeries, there is another alternative that is still viable in many cases . He can inject himself - (usually alprostadil) into the base of his penis. This is perhaps, not as radical as it sounds and I have two friends who, due to other medical conditions, have happily relied on these injections for several years and have reported few difficulties. They also stress it is nowhere near as bad as it sounds. These options have opened up the way over recent years for men to still indulge in ordinary sexual activity. If a guy is still experiencing difficulties- further adjustments with medications may help correct any imbalances.

One of the reasons why Brachytherapy is enjoying such a positive reputation, is because the procedure leaves the tubes intact, (although atrophied) which in turn, reportedly leaves men functioning better afterwards. In time, emissions will dry up and in cases of surgery where there has been removal, ejaculation will simply end up in the bladder. There will be the sense of cumming as well as an orgasm, but nothing will come out.

Again, all cases are individual and no information here can be relied upon as gospel – but there is cause for optimism because from what I have been told and from what I have been able to find out- in most cases a reasonable form of sex life has been possible post procedure or surgery.

One man I know had his prostate removed thirty years ago and he reports to have had a very active sex life up until very recently (he’s now 85). Although following the procedure he has been unable to produce any ejaculate, he said that he always believed his orgasms were even more intense and no less satisfying.

I mentioned in the beginning of this article that I was mainly speaking of only the ability to perform penetration with a weapon that functioned, but it would be remiss of me not to mention the special assistance that can be provided by a loving understanding partner within the confines of a relationship. While I’m not going to address that issue here simply because my research so far has been limited in that area, it is worth noting that in most cases a satisfying sex life encompasses much more than just penetration- and even though a man may be robbed of some aspect of his sexuality- the door is still open to explore and enjoy many other techniques of sensuality. It is seldom a case of coming to the end of the world!

Certainly, in these times, impotence is not the big bogeyman that it once was and in future times I look forward to exploring this topic more and posting information. If you have some experience in this area and would like to share it with me under a blanket of anonymity to share it with others, please feel free to contact me via the “contact me box” and your experience could be invaluable in assisting other men.

Dan Jarrett - one man’s journey battling prostate cancer includes a diary, resources and blog. We look at things in layman’s terms and discuss matters such as sex openly covering things that the medics don’t tell you.
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What You Should Know About Skin and Other Cancers

There are three main types of skin cancer.
First of all I will go through the different types of Skin Cancer, starting off with the most serious type.
Melanoma, this is a very dangerous type of cancer and many thousands die from this every year throughout the world.
Usually it is caused through sunburn in the earlier years of our lives, it can develop very quickly once it starts and can easily spread to other parts of the body.
A melanoma, if left untreated for too long can be fatal, so it is in your best interest to seek medical help as soon as you can.

It can appear as a new spot on your skin, or as an existing blemish that changes appearance, a mole or freckle that changes shape or colour. Regularly check your skin for any changes, don’t spend too long in the sun, wear special blockout cream to prevent burning, if you live in an area of the world that gets a lot of sunshine, you should have a skin inspection every year by a medical practitioner.

Basal Cell Carcinoma, is the most common type of skin cancer, it can be scaly flaky skin, or can be red or pale in color, or a lump, usually on the arms, hands, or face, even though this kind is the least serious, it is important to have them treated.

Squamous Cell Carcinoma, these are quite serious, as they can also spread to other parts of the body, like Melanoma, they usually have to be excised, which is not very pleasant, quite often they are on the face, ears, hands, arms, anywhere that has been exposed to the sun, once again, it is imperative that medical help is sought as soon as you can.

There are dozens of different types of Other Cancers, but there are two main groups. Sarcomas which come from connective tissue, bone, muscle, cartilage etc. and
Carcinomas, which originate from the epithelial cells, which are the linings of your body, either internal or external.

It is important that you watch out for sores that will not heal.
Change in freckles, spots, moles, or warts.
Abnormal discharge, or even bleeding.
A lump anywhere in the body.
Unaccountable weight loss.
A cough or hoarseness.
Any change in you bowel or bladder habits, ie. bleeding.

Today a huge percentage of cancers can be cured, using modern medicine and the experts treatment, however with all cancers, it is so important that you seek help as early as possible, the longer it is left, the more difficult it becomes to cure. It is far better to pay the cost of a visit to your doctor, and then find out you are OK, than finding out too late, that there is nothing that can be done for you.

The next important fact is prevention, I am not saying that all cancers can be prevented, but this is very important, try to include as many of the healthy vegetables and fruit in your diet, Broccoli, Cauliflower, Spinach, Carrots, Garlic, Onions, Brussels Sprouts, Apples, Pears, Oranges, all these type of foods help to flush out the toxins from your body, drink plenty of water. I know that you have heard it all before, but it is so important, if you would like to see old age.

Cancer is one of the most terrible diseases to have, anything that can be done to cure or prevent this disease, should be the most important item on your list of priorities.

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Cancer is a very deadly disease. This disease is one of the most deadly in terms of numbers killed year in and out. According to statistics one in three people will be affected by cancer. And one in four people will die of cancer. However cancer could be prevented in certain situations. The first step in cancer prevention is learning what causes it and the risk factors involved. Avoiding these risk factors can help a person reduce the likelihood of having cancers.

Here are the following risk factors that a person can avoid to prevent cancer.

1. Tobacco – 30% of all cancer deaths in the United States are caused by smoking. It is also responsible for 87% of all people affected by lung cancer. Aside from the lungs, other organs affected by smoking are pancreas, cervix, kidney, stomach and also cause acute myeloid leukemia. Quit smoking to decrease your chances of having cancer. Also try to avoid secondary smoke, secondary smoke can also be deadlier.

2. Have more physical activity – exercise greatly helps reduce your chances of having cancer. Even if it is only for 30 minutes a day, 5 days a week. Exercising will also make you fit against other disease such as heart ailments. Try the exercise activities such as walking, running, aerobics, or yoga. Exercising can also help prevent obesity, which is also one major cause of cancer. Colon, breast, prostrate, endometrial, and lung cancer can have less chances of developing if you are exercising regularly.

3. Genetics – genetics is one of the causes of cancers. When your family has a history of cancer, the best thing to do is just take precaution. If your family has had a history of cancer, the mutated gene which causes cancer may have been passed down. If your family has had a history, you may get a genetic test. Remember that if your family has had a history of cancer it is not certain that you will have it. Your chances of developing it are just greater.

4. Environmental Factors – exposure to certain things within your environment can cause you cancer. Such things like asbestos or benzene can be able to cause cancer.

5. Unsafe Sex – you are suddenly exposed to not only HIV but also HPV. HPV is also known as Human Pappiliona Virus. Having this virus greatly increase a person’s chance of having anal, vulvar, cervical, or vaginal cancer. There are tests that help a person find out if he or she has the HPV virus. You will need to scrape the cervical cells and send them over to a lab.

6. Sun Exposure – greatly exposing yourself to UV rays will cause skin cancer. Be very wise when tanning or being exposed under the sun.

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Medical doctors can have tremendous negative effects on your life if you relinquish the responsibility for and power over your health to them.

Now I’m not talking just about doctors who are negligent or psychopathic. I’m also referring to the competent and humane ones. The ones who do their jobs to perfection. The one’s who care. The one’s who go the extra mile to figure out what’s wrong with you. The one’s who then present their findings to you in the form of a diagnosis.

But isn’t that what doctors are supposed to do? Isn’t that what we go to them for? Isn’t that a sign of good medical practice?

Well if you allow yourself to become married to a diagnosis, especially one that has a poor prognosis (i.e. a poor long-term outcome based on statistics) then you are as good as dead. You will however be making your doctor feel like they’ve served you well through their efforts to provide you the diagnosis.

Now you might be scratching your head wondering what I’m talking about so let me be clearer.

A doctor’s diagnosis is often taken by patients as “God’s Truth”, a truth that is thought to be inevitable, unchangeable, and irreversible and so on.

Why is this? Well because most patients have given away their power over their own lives to these doctors. Whatever they say then becomes the truth and the whole truth.

How many times have you heard a story of a doctor telling a patient that the cancer they have will kill them in a matter of months? When an individual buys this news as the truth what do you think happens to them? Well they fulfill the doctor’s prophecy don’t they?

There are however the conscious and, shall we say “stubborn”, few who refuse to buy into this kind of news. What happens to them? Well in a large number of cases they beat and even defeat the prophecy.

So what does this tell you about the power of one’s beliefs?

Well in my experience it says that it is the belief in the diagnosis that kills you in the end, that is if you accept it as true.

Working with clients over the last ten years employing a powerful modality called the Mind Resonance Process(TM) (MRP) I have helped individuals release deeply imprinted beliefs about their health that were “imprinted” literally into their minds and bodies by well meaning doctors.

In doing so they have experienced remarkable shifts in their level of emotional and physical empowerment and thus their ability to tap into healing capacities they had forgotten they had.

In my view this phenomenon must be acknowledged by individuals if they are to reclaim these unique abilities and thereby assume responsibility for themselves once and for all.

Dr. Nick Arrizza is trained in Chemical Engineering, Business Management & Leadership, Medicine and Psychiatry. He is an Energy Psychiatrist, Healer, Key Note Speaker,Editor of a New Ezine Called “Spirituality And Science” (which is requesting high quality article submissions) Author of “Esteem for the Self: A Manual for Personal Transformation” (available in ebook format on his web site), Stress Management Coach, Peak Performance Coach & Energy Medicine Researcher, Specializes in Life and Executive Performance Coaching, is the Developer of a powerful new tool called the Mind Resonance Process(TM) that helps build physical, emotional, mental and spiritual well being by helping to permanently release negative beliefs, emotions, perceptions and memories. He holds live workshops, international telephone coaching sessions and international teleconference workshops on Physical. Emotional, Mental and Spiritual Well Being.

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